Song of the Day #230: ‘The Way Things Are’ – Fiona Apple

fiona1Choosing another song from When the Pawn… is both a simple and an impossible task. There are no bad choices, but how do you narrow it down to one? Today’s track, ‘The Way Things Are,’ is the first of a trio of songs that finish off the album (the closing track, ‘I Know,’ has already been featured as a Song of the Day — though the YouTube gods have since removed the video from rotation).

One thing that’s increasingly clear after listening to a lot of Apple’s music is that she must be one hell of a difficult girlfriend. So many of her songs pause in the midst of trashing some hapless man to point the finger back at herself. She even has a song called ‘Fast As You Can’ which advises a potential beau to get the hell away from her for his own good.

I believe that’s basically what’s going on in this song, though I suppose it could be read in a number of ways. I read it as a discussion following a breakup, with the man pushing for a reconciliation and the singer resisting — “I’m much better off the way things are.”

Things get more interesting in the chorus. I’m not sure what “kicking the crap til it’s gone” means, exactly, but the phrase “as soon as I settle, I bet I’ll be able to move on” suggests to me that she isn’t entirely done with this relationship either, and perhaps her only way out is to let him wear down her defenses, return to him and then find the ability to call it quits for good. Or not. What do you think?

My favorite part of the song, both musically and lyrically, is the bridge… “How can I fight when we’re on the same side? How can I fight beside you?” I adore her delivery of those lines, and they’re incredibly provocative. I also love how the piano, drums and guitar crescendo from that point into the next chorus.

This is the kind of music I love to just sit and listen to through headphones with nothing else going on. I feel that way about my favorite albums, that it almost cheapens them to listen while doing something mundane like driving.

I wouldn’t know what to do with another chance
If you gave it to me
I couldn’t take the embrace of a real romance
It’d race right through me

I’m much better off the way things are
Much much better off, better by far, by far

I wouldn’t know what to say to a gentle voice
It’d roll right past me
And if you chalk it up you’ll see I don’t really have a choice
So don’t even ask me

I’m much better off, the way things are
Much much better off, better by far

So keep on calling me names, keep on, keep on
And I’ll keep kicking the crap till it’s gone
If you keep on killing, you could get me to settle
And as soon as I settle, I bet I’ll be
Able to move on

How can I fight when we’re on the same side?
How can I fight beside you?

So keep on calling me names, keep on, keep on
And I’ll keep kicking the crap till it’s gone
If you keep on killing, you could get me to settle
And as soon as I settle, I bet I’ll be
Able to move on

3 thoughts on “Song of the Day #230: ‘The Way Things Are’ – Fiona Apple

  1. Dana says:

    My interpretation here is that Apple is simply unable to commit to a relationship, not with this hapless guy or anybody. And that failure to commit, together with whatever idiosynchrocies she has that make her impossible to live with, have caused yet another man to part ways with her.

    And so, here, she is suggesting that, keenly aware of her own traits, tendencies and fallacies, she is resigned to the idea that they are better off the way they are, i.e., not together. But, of course, there remains a part of her that WANTS to be a different person, a person who can commit, a person that doesn’t set fire to relationships, but she feels that she is not in that place and so it ain’t gonna happen.

    Looking at the bridge in that light, I see it as an admission that there can be no “fight” because she and the guy are on really on the same side–the question is what IS that side? I think it could be that they both are on the “side” of knowing there is a part of each other that wants to be together, and a part of each other that doesn’t. For him, he has pulled away, or rather, he has been pushed away by her.Obviously, there is and was an attraction, and he would like to hold on to that (as does she), but her resistance, her issues, get in the way, and so he remains on the “side” of not getting back together even though part of him (and part hf her) would like to.

  2. Clay says:

    Very well said.

  3. Amy says:

    I’ll buy that 🙂

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