Song of the Day #5,914: ‘I Can’t Get My Head Around It’ – Aimee Mann

Continuing a countdown of my favorite albums of 2005…

#6 – The Forgotten Arm – Aimee Mann

Aimee Mann’s fifth solo release is a concept album about a romance between Vietnam vet boxer John and his girlfriend Caroline. Set in the 70s, it depicts the couple’s struggle with John’s alcoholism.

Though the songs shape the narrative, they are general enough to work as standalone tracks, and Mann serves up a great batch of her signature melancholy mid-tempo pop.

The title phrase refers to a boxing technique in which the fighter uses one arm to attack while holding the other back for an unexpected knockout punch. Here, that forgotten arm is a metaphor for the impact of addiction.

I love this album as much for its packaging as its songs. The CD booklet (remember those?) presents the songs as chapters in a short story, with the lyrics presented like prose. Beautiful illustrations of the action appear between chapters. The album won a Grammy for Best Recording Package.

I want to believe
If you tell me so
I want to believe
‘Cause you oughta know
That kicking is hard
But the bottom’s harder
So I’m taking your card

But I cannot get my head around it, baby
I cannot get my head around it, baby
‘Cause that’s just not the way
You make me feel

I want to believe
But, baby, I’m dry
I want to believe
But you testify
And I’ll pour the drinks
Like a true believer
Whose god never blinks

But I cannot get my head around it, baby
I cannot get my head around it, baby
‘Cause that’s just not the way
You make me feel
No, that’s just not the way
You make me feel
No, that’s just not the way
You make me feel

Like way more real than real
The world inside the glass
That struggles to conceal
The wreckage on the overpass

I cannot get my head
I cannot get my head
I cannot get my head around it, baby
‘Cause that’s just not the way
You make me feel
No, that’s just not the way
You make me feel
No, that’s just not the way
You make me feel

3 thoughts on “Song of the Day #5,914: ‘I Can’t Get My Head Around It’ – Aimee Mann

  1. Dana Gallup says:

    Album/CD art and packaging are definitely casualties of the streaming age.

  2. Peg says:

    I like her voice and this song and the cover art as well.

  3. Maddie says:

    Love the whole aesthetic and vibe of this song/album – definitely going to dive in to this one!

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