Song of the Day #6,075: ‘(You) On My Arm’ – Leith Ross

Continuing my countdown of last year’s best films…

Best Films of 2024
#6. My Old Ass

Every year lately seems to offer up one great coming-of-age movie about a young woman — a genre I refer to as my cinematic kryptonite. Two years ago it was Are You There, God? It’s Me, Margaret., preceded by Aftersun (2022) and CODA (2021).

Last year’s winner in the category was My Old Ass, writer/director Megan Park’s magical realist dramedy about a girl who meets her older self while tripping on mushrooms.

This movie toes the line between irreverent comedy and effective sentimentality, serving up a potent cocktail of laughter and tears. What makes it so great is that neither feel forced. The film’s depth of character and sense of place ground everything beautifully.

Credit Park’s script and direction but also the lovely performances by Maisy Stella, as 18-year-old Elliott, and Aubrey Plaza, as Elliott at age 39. Their chemistry during the lengthy dialogue scene that establishes the film’s premise lays the groundwork for everything to come.

During the summer before she leaves for college, Elliott is encouraged by her older self to spend as much time as she can with her parents and brothers, and to avoid a local guy named Chad. She does a pretty good job at the former and a miserable job at the latter.

Stella is delightfully vulnerable, selling Elliott’s tornado of emotions while appearing in nearly every scene. Plaza disappears for much of the runtime, but returns near the end to deliver a powerhouse scene that packs an even bigger wallop in light of recent events in her life.

I love that Park doesn’t dive into the mechanics of this sci-fi premise, allowing the questions it raises (Is old Elliott a hallucination or a time traveler? Can other people see her?) get answered in surprising and satisfying ways.

Finally, I have to mention the film’s setting, a cranberry farm on Lake Muskoka in Ontario. It’s such a sweetly specific and lovingly rendered locale, and it helps sell the film’s overall authenticity.

[Verse 1]
I wish I’d had a chance to walk with you to parties
You would wear a dress, and I would say “I’m sorry”
For something, don’t know what it’d be
But you’d say “Nothing, it’s nothing”
And smile at me
I wanna sit around and watch you do your hair
Talk it all into the ground and have a ceremony there
For something, don’t know what it’d be
But it’d become nothing, it’s nothing
And you’d smile at me

[Chorus]
I wanna be, I wanna buy you
Pretty little things and never ever lie to you
Watch you get dressed and compliment your taste
I’d be better armed if you agreed to take it

[Verse 2]
I wish I’d had a chance to take over the driving
You’d swear to keep me up
And fall asleep beside me
And nothing, no terrible dream
Could ever wake us
I don’t wanna wake up
And then, one good day when we live in the same city
I’ll come by and tell you that you look insanely pretty
Like something, don’t know what it’d be
But you’d say nothing, like something
And smile at me

[Chorus]
I wanna be, I wanna buy you
Pretty little things and never ever lie to you
Watch you get dressed and compliment your taste ’cause
I’d be better armed if you agreed to take it
I’d be better armed if you agreed to take it
I’d be better armed if you agreed

[Bridge]
I wish I’d had a chance to walk with you to parties
Where you would wear a dress and I would say I’m sorry
For something

[Chorus]
Oh, I wanna be, I wanna buy you
Pretty little things and never ever lie to you
Watch you get dressed and compliment your taste ’cause
I’d be better armed if you agreed to take it
I wanna be, I wanna buy you
Pretty little things and never ever lie to you
Watch you get dressed and compliment your taste, well
I’d be better armed if you agreed to take it

[Post-Chorus]
Oh, I’d be better armed if you agreed to take it
I’d be better armed if you agreed

3 thoughts on “Song of the Day #6,075: ‘(You) On My Arm’ – Leith Ross

  1. Dana Gallup says:

    I loved this movie as well. Definitely one of my favorites of the year.

  2. Peg says:

    Ditto for me as well ❤️❤️

  3. Amy says:

    I adore this film and wish more people would see it. While the title is apt and funny, I imagine it alienated some potential viewers who would love the film.

    This one is in my top 3 for the year and often sits up there in the top spot. What a special film, and Plaza’s final scene is astounding.

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