I don’t have many associations with this song, apart from some vague memories of the rather odd video. Benatar plays a troubled teen who is kicked out of the house and winds up dancing with strangers in a bar. Then one day a fellow employee is roughed up by the sleazy manager and she comes to the girl’s defense by leading the rest of the employees in a line dance not unlike the one the zombies do in ‘Thriller.’
And you can see all of that for yourself by clicking the link below (a far less obnoxious form of YouTube fascism is the “embedding disabled” setting, which prevents me from showing the video here but at least leaves it up for the world to see and hear).
This song came up recently when I was talking about the near-blanket rule I have about songs with spoken-word parts. As in, I hate almost all of them. I’m thinking of the sort of thing you hear in Elvis Presley songs, where after the second chorus the singer feels the need to chit-chat: “You know, baby, every time I see your face I want to die…” You know the drill. It’s like somebody interrupted the song to read a Hallmark card.
But I guess there are some exceptions, like Benatar’s spoken-word intro to this song. I’m not saying it works in some great way, just that it doesn’t turn me off the song completely. Maybe that’s because it comes at the beginning.
The other things I associate with this song is the woefully under-appreciated movie 13 Going on 30, the best Big knockoff since Big. Jennifer Garner gives a wonderful performance in that film, including a slumber party singalong of ‘Love is a Battlefield.’ [Note: The film also contains a great ‘Thriller’ dance number, seen here, that ties this train of thought nicely back to the Benatar video I described above]
No promises, no demands
Love is a battlefield
We are strong, no one can tell us we’re wrong
Searchin’ our hearts for so long, both of us knowing
Love is a battlefield
You’re beggin’ me to go, you’re makin’ me stay
Why do you hurt me so bad?
It would help me to know
Do I stand in your way, or am I the best thing you’ve had?
Believe me, believe me, I cant tell you why
But I’m trapped by your love, and I’m chained to your side
We are young, heartache to heartache we stand
No promises, no demands
Love is a battlefield
We are strong, no one can tell us we’re wrong
Searchin’ our hearts for so long, both of us knowing
Love is a battlefield
We’re losing control
Will you turn me away or touch me deep inside?
And before this gets old, will it still feel the same?
There’s no way this will die
But if we get much closer, I could lose control
And if your heart surrenders, you’ll need me to hold
We are young, heartache to heartache we stand
No promises, no demands
Love is a battlefield
We are strong, no one can tell us we’re wrong
Searchin’ our hearts for so long, both of us knowing
Love is a battlefield
We are young, heartache to heartache we stand
No promises, no demands
Love is a battlefield
We are strong, no one can tell us we’re wrong
Searchin’ our hearts for so long, both of us knowing
Love is a battlefield
You haven’t seen 17 Again š
I came to newly appreciate this song when Brooke White “stripped it down,” as Simon would say,
Hearing it without all the images associate with the video made me appreciate the lyrics even more.
This is 80’s music at its best! I was always a fan of Benatar, and became very familiar with her songs when 2 female classmates of mine in high school, Kim and Lisa, asked that I accompany them on piano while they did Shadows of the Night, and a few other Benatar songs, during some school performances.
The spoken intro in this song seems less offensive because it is basically just a forsehadowing of the chorus, rather than having an entire verse spoken out of nowhere in the middle of a song. Also, I think the way the into is produced, with the echoed singing of the chorus, helps. I agree that, typically, those spoken parts can kill a song.